2021.10.24 16:38 Retroment 27M from England looking to chat whilst at work and get to know some people!
Just had a birthday... god I'm old!
So I am currently working as an apprentice so I do have some spare time whilst I'm at work during the day to chat away with someone!
So in my spare time I'm a big animal lover, currently 4 cats, 12 snakes and a gecko.. They all live in harmony... For now or until they meow at me at 5am and I turn them into team cosy's.
I'm a big tattoo fan!
I'm also a massive nerd in terms of gaming and general comic book culture, pokemon and Mario are two favourites for myself, metal and heavy rock music fan as well.
Anyway, I'm looking for people who can actually hold a conversation rather than one lines asking about how I am because lets be honest, that isn't effort.
Hope to hear from you soon.
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2021.10.24 16:38 lovesanimals64 Stop picking on Chase's Drone
I have seen a number of people pick on this character (articles below) the because he has/uses a drone. Newsflash! Drones, as a technology, are only as good or bad as what they are being used to do. It is stupid and pointless to compare his surveillance drone, to weaponized drones used by the military or police when all he is using it for is to help find missing people (lost hikers for example), or helping people find objects they've misplaced. While we are at it, stop picking on his character because he is police themed. He is the kind. of guy who helps a little girl find her lost kitty, not someone he goes around shooting innocent people.
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2021.10.24 16:38 Teiuoffcialtrades W/F/L fast pls
2021.10.24 16:38 PrestigiousPound8452 It's a rainy Sunday, I'm too gay to function, so I took 5oz polisterex an hour and 15 minutes ago
I'm 120 lbs, and with my tolerance I can expect to reach high 2nd plat. I'm one of those people who likes to "dance" under the body load. Really, it's more flailing. I also like to stare at myself in the mirror with a single candle burning to try to receive messages from the mirror realm. I'll let ya'll know what happens. I have an ounce left, and I might take that in a couple hours, depends on if I think I can handle it.
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2021.10.24 16:38 Hai-City_Refugee This was possibly one of the best breakfasts I've ever had. This was in Taishan, Guangdong.
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2021.10.24 16:38 OkayArbiter Oct 24 - 236 new cases (38 in Regina), 0 deaths, 10.8% positivity, 3,854 vaccinations
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2021.10.24 16:38 d3rtba6 The worst thing about being 20th on the leaderboard is that 98.7% of players suck to me 😏
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2021.10.24 16:38 viviantheburgg Almost forgot to post it here so have blue banshee :D they came 6th so that was great (yes i drew this before they replaced Dan)
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2021.10.24 16:38 p0fadder First time that I’m taking bulking seriously and I’ve gained weight for the first time in years. Keen to see how much further I can go.
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2021.10.24 16:38 Flipsideofsanity What do you do on a particularly anxious day?
What are somethings you guys do on a bad day? Those days when you wake up anxious with that pit in your stomach. I've done nothing all day but "relax" but can't seem to shake the feeling. Just want to go back to sleep and wake up on the tight side of the bed in a week. Hate feeling like this.
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2021.10.24 16:38 Key_Conversation_595 🖤😩
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2021.10.24 16:38 lamialio [M4F] Falling in love with an Oni
50 years ago portals started opening up all over the world, bringing monster races into our world. Over time the monster races merged into our society. They were able to live there lives in our world. There's the origin of this world
You are my best friend, your name is Jenna ( you can change it if you don't like it) and We've been friends since high school. You are an absolute tease to me but your also the most caring woman I know, and I secretly have feelings for you.
I'd like to do a long term roleplay were we start to date and fall deeply in love
I use Reddit chat and PM's
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2021.10.24 16:38 dvon1097 Lifelong Ravens fan. Unfortunately I was born in Patriots territory(Providence, Rhode Island). For my 24th i finally made it to my first game at the Bank!!!
2021.10.24 16:38 think_ricch Shiba Special has only began
2021.10.24 16:38 RiderOnTheStorm1970 Jerry Was A Race Car Driver - Primus guitar cover
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2021.10.24 16:38 National-Sprinkles30 Girlfriend [19f] of 1 year went on a walk alone with her male friend, whom she had a major crush on. Why am I feeling insecure?
My [19M] girlfriend [18F] (long distance) went on a walk alone with her male friend (who she had an obsession/crush on in a few years ago but said she lost feelings after she got rejected and lost attraction shortly after but they remained friends. She told me she was CRAZYYYY about him and stalked him a lot - although that was a few years ago). She did this for a while before playing tennis with him (and some other guy friends). When I told her I felt insecure about the walk, she got angry and said why and that I have to fix my insecurities (I've been insecure in the past and asked her too many questions because I used to overthink*** - which she thought implied I was doubting her) because she can't deal with those. I told her I'm trying and she said it's not enough. She said me feeling insecure affects her a lot negatively and she can't keep dealing with it (I said she doesn't have to I will deal it myself). She also told this male friend some time ago that serious relationships are too stressful and he shouldn't get into them. She said this after we had an argument about something stupid.
It started (well not exactly) when I told her that I stalked a male friend of hers because of my insecurity earlier in the relationship (near the start) (she flirted with this guy and accepted his "date" proposal and then back off saying she has a boyfriend, this guy then called her a cheater and then she said my bf knows about this conversation anyways - which I didn't, I found out by snooping - which is wrong I know). I felt insecure, this guy was really rich and ripped, I was kind of fat during that time. I basically stalked his comments to see how she reacts to his pictures and I got into a habit of doing this whenever we had arguments. And I did it recently after more than 2-3 months and told her I did that.
She didn't talk to me the entire day and at night talked about my insecurity. Then she told me will I feel insecure if she told me about something and then she told me about that walk with her male friend. I told her that we can't go on walks like that so I felt jealous and insecure (we're in long distance for more than 7 months and her mom is really controlling and doesn't let her out of the house or let us meet until recently after our "break up"). She laughed and said so whatever I do with my friends I have to do with you as well (and then said "not that I don't wanna walk with you")? I did not tell her to not go on such walks or not talk to her friend. I just told her I'm getting a little insecure (she said I'm being VERY insecure). But she got really angry and said that I shouldn't feel insecure and asked me to give a reason of me feeling insecure or she won't talk to me. And then she told me to fix my insecurities or she won't talk to me at all. Today we decided to take a break and she wants me to work on myself and my insecurities and fix myself.
She also said a lot of times that my insecurity is because I don't trust her which I don't think is true. I know she won't do anything wrong but I still get insecure? She does have a history of cheating on her only serious relationship before (and another guy) and I did have problem with this in the initial stages of the relationship but I have never made her feel bad about it (she says she deeply regrets cheating and that she has changed ever since we started dating). She also asked me questions like what if she posts a picture on her insta with a male friend of hers, who let's say is really hot like abs and all and I get to know through the picture that they went out together, how will I react?
We're on a break right now and she's sending me articles to help me fix my insecurities and keep talking "as friends" until we get back together.
*I get insecure because I've read how people who do activities together (especially physical activities like exercise and stuff), release dopamine and endorphins, and the brain associates that with the person they're doing it with, and that develops feelings (of attraction). This is also my first relationship so maybe that also contributes to my insecurity? Also my parents have an abusive relationship and I've seen a lot (physical, verbal, threats, silent treatment, separation for a while) since I was a child (earliest incident I remember is when I was 7-8 and my dad hit my mom)**. I've read a lot that this can make a person insecure and affect their future relationships. Could this be the reason? When I shared this with my girlfriend she said it was a stupid reason and she doesn't believe it.
**I've told my girlfriend about these incidents. I told her that a lot of times when my parents fight they call each other crazy and mad and stuff like that and I asked her to not say those during our arguments because it triggers memories. She said it recently during our argument and I reminded her of it but she said she knows but she had to say it. Earlier in the relationship I told her I fear becoming like my dad, and during a fight (our fights weren't this complicated that time, it was over stupid stuff) she said that she thinks I'm like my dad (she knew about plenty of incidents at this point). She said that it was in anger.
***I stopped asking such questions a few months back, I still used to overthink about some little stuff (much less frequently than before and I did my best to improve after we talked) until a more recent fight of ours almost 2 months ago where she said she can't deal with this and so I didn't do so for more than a month. I didn't ask any questions, or overthink anything at all. She recently broke up with me some time ago (and later said it was a break and that she got angry) because of the above mentioned overthinking (I fixed the overthinking and asking "doubtful" (according to her) questions - in my head, I just ask for too much clarification***** and I don't actually doubt her, but she felt this way when I asked her questions trying to clear things. She either got irritated or defensive**** (like why are you asking that, why do you wanna know)) so I stopped asking questions like that. So I decided to fix those things (I didn't do any of that for more than a month) and she said she couldn't "believe" that I changed, and that if I didn't do those things (overthinking over little things) for a month, how can I guarantee I won't do it in the future? She said I need to fix my overthinking small things and asking her questions about it (which I stopped doing - I still overthink a little but I know how to not indulge in those thoughts). She also said I have to stop asking her questions like at what time did she sleep yesterday and what she was up to, which we used to do everyday. She wanted me to fix my sleep schedule (I told her I'm feeling stressed because of applying to universities and all). If I fix these things she'll get back with me. We started dating again last week.
****She started talking to one of my male "friend" who I got in touch after a long time. This friend, gave my gf his number and told her to text him if she wants to talk since his insta is not working (this isn't true because he is highly active everyday. This guy also sent her a lot of memes (and he used to not send me any). It was clear he wanted her number, they had just started talking and all he knew was that she was my gf (he has also joked about stealing people's gf and causing breakups). She didn't tell me this. For about a few months, this male friend showed interest in my gf a lot and asked stuff about her. I told her about it and that I don't wanna be friends with such a guy. She said I'm being overprotective because I'm overthinking. I stressed a lot about this and shared with her but she said I'm overthinking and I need to stop. I asked her if he showed any interest ya said something odd or something, she said I'm overthinking. A few months later she tells me out of nowhere that this friend gave her his number. She said it's okay because she didn't actually send him a message and only saved his number - which I have no idea why she needs (she said they only share memes like once a week). I told her that she should've told me before and why she didn't tell when I was stressing over this (and instead told me I'm overthinking). Then she got defensive and said so what if she didn't tell me and when I asked her why she saved his number anyways, she said so what if she saved his number and I was like what?
*****When we started dating, she texted her ex (who she was serious with before me - not more than 1-2 years ago) telling him "cute" (replied to a childhood photo of his). When he called her cute back, she got into an argument with him (and send me the ss of everything). I later (quite a few months later - we were talking about something and it came up) asked her why she even replied to his story in the first place and she said "idk" and then started getting irritated when I asked her to clarify.
I know a lot of my behavior is toxic but I'm trying to fix it but I don't know what else to do. I'm probably just making excuses about my behavior but I really want to fix myself? Why am I like this? Please help
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2021.10.24 16:38 Watcher427 Headpats are the sexiest thing on planet earth
2021.10.24 16:38 Cello4419 What do HR/ recruiters think about career change candidates?
Background story, I worked in academia for 4 years, with an unhappy experience and not much transferrable skills. Then I did a masters program with internship options included. I had such a hard time finding internships compared to the recent grad classmates, and I figured it was due to the extra 4 years I had compared to someone who is fresh. Fast forward to 2021, after I completed 2 internships, graduated and landed my first job, I finally had enough filled space to push the academia experience off my resume. I do notice that I get more calls for interview when I hid the date of undergraduate graduation, and not mentioning the academia experience. Should I keep doing this and save the trouble in explaining the career change reason? If I do get the question of when I graduated undergrad and hence the gap in employment, how should I go about it? Also, what would make HR pick someone who had undergone career change over a candidate that has a normal career trijacetroy? Thanks
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2021.10.24 16:38 thrifrtrash Recently pulled umbreon vmax secret alt art, but it has this pink dot on the back of the card. What does this mean?
2021.10.24 16:38 GreyWalken 50. Little Axolotl
2021.10.24 16:38 my-eye-candy-account Precious Beauty
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2021.10.24 16:38 dhporter [Bill Madden] I’m hearing as a prelude to a likely lockout by the owners Dec. 1, the winter meetings in Orlando are being cancelled
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2021.10.24 16:38 RobinsonDickinson can i drive my parents car on their insurance in new york?
2021.10.24 16:38 IdoRovitz Anyone else can't play legends with their friends?
2021.10.24 16:38 iagom Do u guys think The Dawn gives kiss land vibes?
moth to a flame gave me kissland vibes idk if just me. I think kiss land It's ahead of its time and maybe bc of that I'm seeing similarities now but maybe I'm just tripping.
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